Self-Deprecating Humor: Use It or Lose It?

Rachel Beohm
4 min readAug 31, 2022

Sometimes self-deprecating humor can be helpful in establishing connections… most of the time, it backfires. Here’s how to tell what’s best.

I generally advise against using self-deprecating humor. Most of the time, it does not convey confidence and credibility. But as is the case with virtually all communication advice, context and motivation can change everything.

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Rachel Beohm

Exploring relationship skills, communication (especially nonverbal), and how to live a full life. Promoter of kindness, gratitude, and joy.